HOW GRANDMOTHER MARGARET STARTED IT ALL My grandmother, Margaret, was a stoic, noble, graceful, loving, and hopeful woman who was the primary source of motivation and inspiration in my life. She modeled resilience and refused to be solely recognized for her Holocaust “victim” status. She preferred the term “survivor”. I wholeheartedly believe that “survivor” isn’t even the right identity. She didn't just “survive” the senseless hatred and violence of the Nazis, she grabbed